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10 Tips for Better Asian Dating

Here are 10 tips for having better success with Asian dating. The tips are based on my own experiences of dating Asian women, plus the experiences of the guys here on Asian Love Connections.

  1. First of all it's a good idea to focus on an individual country. Most men tend to find Asian wives and girlfriends from Japan, China, Thailand, the Philippines or Vietnam. Which country you pick is entirely up to you. It's easier to find a wife from the Philippines than from the other countries - this is good news because the majority of our female members just happen to be from the Philippines!
  2. Bear in mind that Asian countries are quite large and transportation networks aren't always that great. Consequently it's better to choose to chat to women who live in a particular location. So choose a city that you can easily visit, and stick to it. This allows you to build up a network of potential dates in the location. Once you visit the city, you'll also be able to build a list of your favourite restaurants and other first date locations. As far as cities go, Cebu and Manila look good for the Philippines. For China I like Guangzhou, Chengdu and Shenzhen. For Thailand take a look at Chiang Mai. It's more relaxed than Bangkok, and the women are beautiful!
  3. Next up you need to choose some ladies to chat to! It's worth drawing up a list of qualities (age, height, weight, etc.). However, remember that love is a pretty vague concept, so never discount anyone. One thing that I hate about dating sites is that they're quite robotic and mechanical. Say you want a woman who is between 5' 2" and 5' 3" and you'll never see anyone who is 5' 4" or 5' 1". What a pity to miss out on an awesome girl just because she is a little outside of your height range!
  4. Dating is very much a numbers game. The more women you contact, the better your chances. Ideally you want to contact around a dozen women a day.
  5. The hottest women get a lot of interest, so to stand out from the hundreds of interests they get every month, you'll have to work a little harder. Don't just send them a wink or an interest - send them an email! Make sure the email is interesting and stands out from the others. Mention something about the woman. If she doesn't speak much English, then make the effort to write something in her language.
  6. Scammers are a problem on pretty much all dating sites. So be on the lookout for scammers, but don't be too paranoid. The best way of identifying the worst of the scammers is to set up a chat session on webcam. And remember that if you don't send money to anyone, you won't really get scammed.
  7. Shortlisting women you want to visit in Asia should be your ultimate aim on a dating site. Spend time chatting to women and get to know something about them. If a woman is slow to respond, then she might not be that into you. Just find somebody else to chat to.
  8. It's a good idea not to fall in love with somebody online. Wait until you meet them in person. I've chatted to some gorgeous women online, but when I've met them in person there's just been no chemistry.
  9. Don't rush into booking a flight to Asia to meet the first woman you chat to online! Ideally wait 2-3 months after chatting to her. And always have a list of reserve ladies who you can visit should your first choice be a disappointment.
  10. Lastly, as a guy who's met quite a few women in Asia, I'll say that you should aim to spend as much time in Asia as you humanly can. It's pretty difficult to find a wife on a two week vacation! So if you can, try and take time off from your life and spend 3-6 months in Asia. This will allow you to take things more slowly, and find the ideal partner for you. You'll find that countries like Vietnam, Thailand and the Philippines have a low cost of living, and it's fairly easy to live there for less than $1000 a month.

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I am , the owner of Asian Love Connections. I have travelled extensively throughout Asia, and have dated a number of Asian women.

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